Sek Require Lobbying

How many kinds of reasons that made women to their partners to avoid the activities of the marital relationship? Or, how many times is also a woman to fake an orgasm for intimate activities is coming to an end?

In a study conducted in 2008 found the data that only a quarter of female respondents said that sex makes them very happy. While 42 percent prefer to play with pets compared to 'play' in bed with a partner.

Another survey that examines women from 58 countries found that women were more concerned with their appearance than having sex. It is different with a man who was always passionate sex-related, as quoted from page Yourtango.

"Women always have other considerations about sex," says Tina B. Tessina, PhD, a licensed psychotherapist and author of 'Lovestyles: How to Celebrate Your Differences'.

If a man is controlled by the hormones adrenaline and testosterone, women are controlled by the hormone estrogen and oxytocin. Thus, the sex drive between men and women occurred because of different needs. Female sexual response based on feeling unwanted, attention, and sense of security with their partner. "If he feels ignored, criticized, and belittled or threatened, his sex drive will decline."

Age also plays a fairly important matter of the appearance of sexual arousal. Surveys show that women's interest in sex will decline more rapidly than men after the first two years of marriage.

"Therefore, it is important to recognize the desires and needs of you and your partner, and negotiating differences," says Tessina further.

Tessina also asserted that women should know that sexually active does not make them as mere satisfying male lust.

In order to keep harmonious relationship with your partner, focus attention on the overall relationship and your partner.

"Let's focus on love and attention, others can be negotiated. Sex is very important for the continuity of marriage, but the important thing is the cooperation of the compact," he said again. | Source: VIVANEWS (umi)

AWARE Knots For Justice and Democracy

A decade more pascareformasi 98, youth leadership debate in the national power arena sticking. Unfortunately, this debate and discourse positions young people as if begging for power in the political elite that was old. So where discourse from the discourse that led the young man now? And where the youth now take part in the struggle of the people?
The role of youth, can not be denied in the history of the struggle of this nation so great. Youth are categorized is still productive age and have the physical capability that is strong enough and aggressive in moving. In general understanding is limited to youth aged 40 years. But in everything, in fact no single group could move let alone his own age group let alone make a fundamental change in people's lives.
Historically, a combination of experience and strength that are still earning a great power to make changes. This can we look in the history of the Youth Pledge of 1928, Independence Day 1945, Events Malari and Reform 1998. No young people are moving yourself, there is always a close correlation or relationship between an experienced leader (old age) with young people.
In the period of political turmoil and great moments that drive the youth to take his role and become a leader in the movement. But the process was the appearance of a peak, because there are aspects of the previous process that is doing community organizing. Organizing is to live together, learn together and fight together what the needs of people where they live. That the ends are moving at the highest demands in the realm of power politics. Period can be studied in the literature, there are no young man could be a character and moves the masses without seriousness, diligence and continuity in the group of people so well known and widely supported.
In current practice, especially pascareformasi (also occurs in every period of the momentum of the seizure of power) is more dominant youth go to power through the power of intellectual as well as formal political parties. These conditions keep what was done in the circumference of the power of the perceived general condition of the people and youth who have entered the ring of power has no strong political bargaining position.
As we know, that the formal processes of democracy through elections that can raise a lot of youth into the ring of power is not purely a process of organizing the awareness and active involvement of the masses. But more and more young men who have money and close to the power to be used as a way to the ring of power.
Problem of people every day are the result of greed of power devoted to international capitalism. Thus the policy of law, political and economic role of the state of removing the people's interests. With this policy is very clear how the people in the heavy pressure. When we aggregated, then there are many youth are involved in power and indifferent to the condition of the people.
People increasingly depressed, on the one hand pressed national policy, on the other side to survive the economic life should be done. On the other hand, knowledge of legal policy as well as information from the situation in general very little or almost nothing.
In such situations, the resistance of such conditions is bound to happen. The problem that arises is the lack of popular resistance directed and local in character. This is where the actual role of the youth to be present and functioning.
Young men should be in the midst of the people who need a supply of knowledge so that it can direct the struggle with the appropriate and useful. In this context, long-term struggle and become a place of education for the people to get out of the difficulty occurs. The event is both a lead weight room so that people born leaders loyal to the interests of the people.

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Coffee may reduce risk of skin cancer

REPUBLIKA.CO.ID, BOSTON - Coffee may reduce risk of skin cancer. The good news is Released on Monday (24/10) at the American Association for Cancer Research and Prevention is the 10th. The international conference held in Boston shows that coffee drinking, especially by women have a positive effect terdahap risk of skin cancer.
Women who drank more than three cups of coffee per day had a 20 percent lower risk exposure Basal Cell Carcinoma (BBC), compared with women who drank less than one cup per month. The BBC is one type of skin cancer most often diagnosed.
According to the American Cancer Society, 75 percent of all skin cancer cases there is a type of the BBC. Until now there has been a total of 22,786 cases. Men who drank the same amount had a lower risk of skin cancer face nine percent.
"Our study suggests that coffee consumption may be an important option to help prevent the BBC," said Fengju Song, a researcher who was involved in this research.
These data obtained from studies conducted in hospital nurses Brigham women, and health practitioners profesioanal (Harvard School of Public Health). The nurse took approximately 72 921 participants from June 1984 until June 2008. Health practitioners professionals examine 39 976 participants from June 1986 until June 2008.
Unfortunately, the benefits of drinking coffee has not seen a positive impact on other types of skin cancer, namely squamous cell carcinoma (1953 cases) or melanoma (741 cases). Previous studies have shown coffee drinkers tend to mmeberikan risk of breast cancer, uterine, prostate and colon cancer. A good effect was not seen in people who drank decaffeinated coffee. http://id.she.yahoo.com